It is normal for romance to fade over time. When you are so familiar with your spouse, there is no surprise anymore to keep the fire burning. Conflicts and misunderstanding arise when couples don’t exert an effort to understand one another. At least try to save your marriage before you decide to end your marriage through divorce and or annulment. Here are some ways you can try to save your marriage.
Talk To One Another With Honesty And Sincerity
Misunderstanding is caused by lack of communication. This is a simple problem with a simple solution. You and your partner need to talk. This is the time to postpone your negative emotions and be rational. If you and your spouse can’t talk to each other, it maybe the best time to consult a marriage counselor to have someone mediate between the two of you.
Approaches to marriage counseling
Imago Relationship Therapy
This therapy would unveil the root cause of the dissatisfaction in your marriage. It will uncover the emotions and unconscious beliefs that is preventing you from having a happy marriage. Imago Relationship Therapy was based on Western psychological methodologies that focuses on spiritual and behavioral healing.
Emotion-Focused Therapy intends to unleash all the negative emotions that were formed during the difficult times of your marriage. This approach of marriage counseling is effective for those couples who continuously argue about small things. Psychologists agree that once these emotions are dealt with, the harmony in the relations will be back again.